Tuesday, June 26, 2007

Something About Softness

There's just something to be said about softness in a man.

As much as I love "masculinity" in the men that I choose to deal with, it is so essential that they also have a bit of softness. And I guess that can manifest in a great number of ways (which, thankfully, allows for me to see beauty and compatibility in a wide array of different persons). For example, I see softness in some men because have a small stature, beautiful eyes, lips that are full and soft, smooth musculature, long hair, a soft voice, or a beautiful smile. In other men, I see softness in the way a man finds strength in me, in his ability to shed tears, in the way his eyes brighten when he sees me, the way he talks about his mother, the way he looks when he sleeps, or the way he holds me tight when we sleep to make sure I don't move during the night.

Just had to get that off my chest, but I think I will delve more deeply into this sort of "necessary" duality at a later date.